What if we're doing it wrong?

Dear Beautiful One,

Have you ever felt that way? Like you look around and everybody’s doing things almost unconsciously and even though that seems to be the way it is, it just somehow feels wrong ... or maybe it feels like it should be different?

I’d been feeling that way for some number of years - still do to a degree. I see patterns and behaviors that people display, high levels of competition, fear-based thinking, "money is everything" thoughts, I'm right - you're wrong attitude, our world becoming more and more divided in its views, and I just kept thinking that there must be a better way.

Not so long ago I discovered a different way of being, a better way of being. One where I find it more rewarding to explore than to come to a conclusion, more satisfying to wonder about things than to “know for sure“, to see from a place of wonder and openness, and finding it more exciting to search and be curious then to stay in the struggle..... a place where curiosity - not certainty - becomes a way more delicious way of being.

And, can you imagine that it was mainly a matter of learning new skills? Yeah, learning new skills helped me see the way to shift and change my thinking so that I now live with way more happiness and fulfillment.

My wish for you Beautiful One, is that this new way of being creeps into your life, so that the heaviness of worrying and desperation subside and acquiesce to greater and greater levels of your own curiosity and openness and delight.

I know that if I can learn and love this new way of being - and you want it - then you can too.

Sending huge hugs and big love,

Debbie Pearson